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Bittersweet by Susan Cain: Book Review

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I am an introvert. I always have been, and I don’t intend to change it. Not anymore, at least. If you’re an introvert, you might have experienced the difficulty of “fitting in.” When people around you are energized by the overwhelming social gathering, you feel drained in the crowd. You’d rather curl up on your couch with a book and your dog. Just like me. You see, I have always found it hard to fit in, whether it's parties or social events. People often mistake introversion for ‘shyness’ or ‘lack of confidence.’ Little do they know the power of introversion—the power of quiet introspection. If you are in a profession such as sales, your woes multiply by 10. In sales, introversion is unacceptable—a role that deals with understanding people and solving their problems and demands a lot of socializing. Early in my career, that’s what I believed. Time, however, has changed my perception. I now can confidently say that introversion is actually a superpower in sales. You cannot b

Resilience

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Back in 2010, I interviewed for a job. The interviewer asked, " If you had to describe yourself using a word, what would that be?". I answered, "Resilient." The funny thing was, I had googled and stumbled upon the word the evening before, in my naïve attempt to rock that interview, and thought to myself, "Yes, I'm resilient." I got the offer. I guess I said all the right things. However, at the time, little did I know what resilience meant. Fast forward to 2021, and time has taught me a few things about it. I love the thrill of achieving a goal!  If you've been there, you know that's the moment you live for - to feel invincible. The contrast is equally, if not more, brutal. A bad streak of losses and rejections can give your morale a jolt. So how do you recover quickly? How do you summon the resilience within and get going again? In my understanding, it comes down to two things: To remind myself "why" I want to get to the other side o

The Benefits of Journaling: Your Guide to Growth

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Yes. For me it is.   Journaling is therapeutic.  There are days when life throws curveballs, and I feel shortchanged. Then, some days soar and end on a high note. I want these days to be alive in my memory forever. I want to be grateful for them as long as I live. And then sometimes, simply life does not make sense, you know? But I want it to make sense. For times as such, journaling is what I often turn to.  Once I jot my thoughts down, I often feel sorted and at ease. Writing helps me internalize and organize thoughts and concepts that would otherwise be difficult. Journaling, in a way, is also a tool for me to help develop my abilities and achieve my ambitions.  That's  right. I regularly write about goals, experiences, and thoughts – I am surprised that some exist within me. I just never realized until I wrote them down. In a way, journaling is a great way to rediscover and uncover what is really going on within. Get the bigger picture.  How to Journal? Simple. Get a pen &

Discover Your Next Read: Explore This Exciting Reading List

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  Do you enjoy reading ?     I love reading. It takes me to another world without leaving home. When I feel tired, I like to make myself a cup of espresso and snuggle up on the couch with a good book. Although I own an e-reader and an iPad, I prefer physical books as they provide more comfort.      Do you prefer physical books or e-books? Let me know in the comments!      Here's a funny struggle I face sometimes: I tend to pick up more than one book at a time - especially if they have been on my reading list for a while. But then I feel guilty about it - as if  I'm committed to more than one relationship. Do you ever face a silly dilemma like this? Have you ever cheated on a book? Here's my recent reading list - that you too should consider for your 2024 reading list: "Humour, Seriously" - a short read by Naomi Bagdonas and Jennifer Aaker about leveraging humour to make your work life suck less. It's a great book to learn how to use humour in different situat